This is a note to everyone before the new year.
I know the new year is coming, and everyone is making resolutions to party, enjoy with friends, and take a trip somewhere. But some people are just only trying to be themselves on the new beginning, they also love how their friends, and families are celebrating the New Year but they are preparing for the new year and they know it is going to be the best year till their life and more far better than the previous year where they tried, failed, again tried, failed, learned from the mistakes and again took the risk and again failed. And that's life. It happens and this is a new type of resolution they again make for the upcoming new year.
So Happy New Year everyone. I hope everyone is doing well and if not be proud that you were always with yourselves in darks, lows, during mind crises, and also in happy moments. Be proud that you always believed in yourself when no one believed you. Be proud that you tried different things and you learned a lot. Be proud that you faced so many rejections. be proud of that now you got to know how the world is. Be proud that you can do anything and it is possible what you want to achieve. The sky is the limit.
Yeah everything we wished to start this year, some of them we achieved, some of them got missed, more new resolutions got added, and again some of them were out of our control.
when we are in our childhood time, we always think about growing faster so that we can have our own mobile phone, job, money, car, and home. Many of us. It was our dream. We knew that it would take time but we had faith in ourselves, we had the power to think we could achieve anything and for sure it was nothing but a feeling without any external pressure. We had no pressure and we thought we gonna achieve it very easily this type of life is not that hard and it was that freedom we had.
But now when we look back to those things, those curiosities, those expectations, we feel that were nothing but some sort of stupidity. We are wrong. That was not any kind of stupidity, that was that inner light that guided us to find our purpose.
But nowadays we don't think like that anymore, we are not focusing on long-term goals. Our attention span becomes so small that we are always looking for short-term pleasures and happiness. We are so distracted by today's social media that our vision spans are decreasing.
Remember when you said you wanted to become an astronaut after watching your favorite movie/cartoon with your mom, your mom laughed at you and must have said yes you can but now focus on today, focus on those things today that will bring you there one day, focus and believe yourself that you can do this. But now we are not ready to accept that success needs time and we have to wait and we have to those many things that will get us there one day.
So don't rush, if we deserve to get it will come surely and we don't have to expect it.
I always believe in “having low expectations”, it surely helps me when things do not go as planned, I know the frustration that we worked so hard for this, and in the end, it does not bring the result we wanted.
A quote saying “ Success boosts ego, failure builds character”.
Thanks for reading till the end.
When I first wrote it, I didn't intend to share it, but as I was working on another article, it just came out, and it pushed me to change the title to this.
And I recently completed a movie named ‘ Kho Gaye Hum Kahan’ on Netflix. It was about our different personalities on social media and in real life. How we try to be so happy in reel life but the opposite is in our real life. It is a good watch, give it a try.
Again Happy New Year. And see you.
